Upgrade Your Home Library With These 14 Incredible Sex-Positive Books

Think of this book as the encyclopedia of sex. This book exposes the hows and whys of women's sexuality, and it's meant to make you feel more empowered and confident both in and out of the bedroom. It takes a more scientific approach to sexual education, citing studies and scientific research on the exploration of women's sexuality.

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Let's be real: many of us didn't really learn anything from our high school sexual education classes. Then comes Carnal Knowledge, a book from celebrity sexpert Zoë Ligon that highlights progressive, positive, and constructive sex tips and ideas that you probably didn't get to learn in the classroom.

This book's title hits pretty close to home for couples cohabiting during the months of stay-at-home orders in 2020. In this book, New York City couples therapist Esther Perel takes a deep dive into the relationship between domesticity and sexual desire, and she explains exactly what it takes to bring lust home.

It's a great book for spicing up a long-term relationship, especially if you've been quarantined together for long periods of time.

If you or your partner is trans, then this is a must-read. This enlightening book not only explores trans sexuality but uses first-hand accounts from people whose partners have transitioned to educate the masses on the process of transitioning while maintaining a successful, healthy relationship. 

This book highlights just about everything involved in the transition process, with specific guidance for those supporting a partner in transition. Topics explored in this essential read include disclosure, mental health, coming out, loss and grief, sex and sexuality, and the legal, medical, and social practicalities of transitioning.

It's 2020, and it's about time we've talked about polyamorous relationships. This book is meant to break down the conventional ideas of monogamy, and it explores today’s modern attitudes and the latest information on nontraditional relationships. 

Even if polyamory isn't your style, there are definitely tons of things you can learn about the machinations of modern relationships through this read.

Pleasurable sex is for everyone, and author/transgender activist Juno Roche wants you to know that. This book takes a witty look at Roche's personal anecdotes of sex, desire, and dating with leading figures from the trans and nonbinary community. 

Roche has no qualms with calling out prejudices in this frank look at modern dating, and this intriguing read will inspire readers to explore their own concepts of intimacy and sexuality, whether or not they identify as LGBTQ+.

This New York Times best-seller explores the ties between sexuality and activism, otherwise deemed as "pleasure activism" by author Adrienne Maree Brown. This read delves beyond day-to-day sexual encounters and takes a look at how we can make politics a pleasurable experience. 

Covering topics like sex work, climate change, race, gender, drugs, and of course sex, this read is perfect for spicing up your views on modern politics.

Not all sexual encounters are pleasurable. Painful sex is more common than you'd think for women, and this book breaks down the stereotypes of painful sex. It also delves into the true facts behind the causes of pain during sex, tips for understanding sexual pain, what you can do about it, and how to rebuild sexual intimacy.

How many books are out there about vaginas that are actually written by a gynecologist? The answer: not enough. 

Thankfully, Dr. Jen Gunter, OB-GYN, writer for The New York Times, and host of the Canadian TV show Jensplaining, has us covered.

This book, which has earned a spot in various best-seller lists (including The New York Times, USA Today, and Publishers Weekly), delves into the facts and myths of vaginas, and how to keep yours healthy. If you've ever had a question about vaginas and were too afraid to ask your doctor, chances are, this book has answered it.

Getting off, whether by yourself or with a partner, can be difficult at times, and that's perfectly normal. If you're looking to see how to perfect the art of female masturbation, then this book is a great guide to get you started. 

This book works to debunk masturbation myths, eradicate shame, and reinforce the truth behind female masturbation, all while sharing tips to help you get off.

Whether you want to learn about your own body or another female's in your life, this book is a must-have for better sex. It delves into topics such as STIs, cunnilingus, trans sexualities, sex and disability, and so much more. This is a great read for someone who is starting their sexually active journey.

Let's talk about bondage, shall we? It's a pretty common kink, but it's one of those difficult ones that you need to practice to perfect. Well, if you need a quick cheat sheet, this book has you covered. 

This teeny book is packed with the basics of BDSM, tying techniques, safety considerations, and an overview of kink culture. Plus, it also has step-by-step pictures to teach you everything you need to know to perfect this erotic art form.

Some like it rough, but many of us would rather keep things slow and steady. This book dives into the practice of orgasmic meditation (aka OM), which can be used to slow down, connect emotionally with your partner, and take the time you need to reach orgasm. 

This tantalizing read takes a look at the philosophy and techniques of OM and includes a step-by-step, 10-day OM starter program, as well as OM secrets for achieving ultimate satisfaction.

Is it possible to get off without having sex? Short answer: absolutely! This sexy read delves into Mistress Simone's ideas behind chastity when enforced by a mindful dominant and backed by the right attitude and equipment. 

Simone, who has a background as a longtime dominant, is exploring a new twist on chastity play and gives tips on keeping your submissive eager to attend to your every desire — solely by holding the literal and/or metaphorical key to their sexual release. It's a great read for people who are ready to spice things up by trying something new.